19 Jan Nadia Essex, 36, says women must wear heels on dates to be more attractive; The dating expert says high heels are 'the only acceptable form. Dating In Heels. 92 likes. Dating in Heels is a Dating and Lifestyle show where hosts Jen Hecht and Eve Monica bring in lifestyle experts to chat about. I am naturally more of a submissive, so whatever makes my partner happy will make me happy. If heels turn him on and I see that it does well.